Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Have you lost 'The ONE'?

Have you lost 'The ONE'?

So? Have you? Lost the one true love of your life?
The only girl in the entire world who understood you? There are 7 billion people in the world so the odds say it's unlikely. Although it can certainly FEEL that way sometimes...a LOT of the time.

So what happened?
Why did you 'love' her so much? Why do you feel as though you will die without her? Well, attraction happens in the mind. It's a VERY powerful illusion caused by chemicals in the brain. The brain deludes itself. Best not to get involved.
She isn't the one true love of your life. Remember how you were feeling BEFORE you met her? Who the heck gave her all this power over you? And what kind of person are you if someone has that kind of power over you? The only power someone else has over us is the power we give them...and you want it back. Undamaged...preferably polished and vacuumed.

Can the pain be switched off?
It's not that easy and it's not something that can be done quickly. Very strong pathways and connections have been built based on your desire, connection, affection and beliefs regarding that special someone. It's like trying to destroy an eight lane highway and convert it back to the original land that was there before it.

So. Is this pain useful?
You bet it is. It's called 'the learning process'. Now you've learned that men fall in love quite quickly and women fall into and out of love slowly over time.

What can I do to ease the pain?
Sport. Sleep. Go out. Get a new hobby. Meet new people. Talk to new people. Walk your dog. Walk a dog. Get a dog.Get a cat. Introduce the dog to the cat. Date other women...even BETTER women. I know what you're thinking - there's no one better than Susan...or Daisy...or Karen! But there is! There are thousands more women who are better looking, with better personalities, who have more in common with you and who like you a lot more! Check out

After she dumps you leave her alone...

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